GUYS AND GALS CAN NEVER BE JUST FRIENDS
I know i must have raised many eye-brows by the title itself. Ok plebeians calm down you all may not agree with me , i know i will b vehemently opposed , ridiculed , even ostracized for having this kind of an opinion.But this is my blog and my views so deal with it plus im all prepared to be judged by anyone and everyone.Ok so now let me elaborate on the "LAW" and state its clauses and conditions.- a guy and a girl can never just good friends.During the course of their relationship sometime or the other the guy or the gal(usually the guy , coz we r super despo) begin to feel towards the other person more than just friendship.He / she may not come out of the closet with those feeling thinking they may " loose their friend " ( actually they are gutless losers ) .So they keep these feeling pent up inside them forever or till the time these feeling die out or some other FRIEND comes in their life for whom they begin to feel even strongly.
Ok up till this line 99.67% of u do not agree with me , even i fall in the 99.67% category.But now let me state the exceptions to this law.This law is like ORGANIC CHEMISTRY exceptions are more important than the actual principle.
1. If either the guy or the gal is committed to someone else , it has been found in many cases that those special feelings do not originate.
2. If you are not attracted by the other person's physical appearance then you can be friends , but i speak for you coz the other person may have feeling for you after all BEAUTY LIES IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER.No matter whatever you say "inner beauty is this...inner beauty is that..." ull always prefer a partner to whom you are physically attracted."love at first sight" is the perfect example to support my claim , how can u love a person without even knowing his/her name ,character , nature, etc. its the physical attraction that people call love@1st site.
3. If the other person is your friend's sister/brother , ex-lover , current companion , etc. you two can be friends. Ill take a moment here to tell you all about the "BRO CODE". You all may have heard it somewhere or the other , it actually does exist and here it is :: " a friend should not allow feelings to develop within him towards his friend's sister (be it cousin) or his girl friend ".This code has been followed for ages in the men society and even many times violated but still considered irrefutable.
If you and ur friend do not fall in either of the above 3 categories then i can vouch for fact that either of you have feelings for the other peroson.These feelings may not be overwhelming in magnitude but they do exist trust me ive seen many people say no to me on my face but within themselves they cant deny the fact.
hey!
ReplyDeletei kinda disagree........ coz i have loads of frends none of whom fall in2 d exception category and beleive me...... thrs nuthng
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but keep writing......
I am vehemently opposed and (?ridiculed?).
ReplyDeleteI have the following objections:
1) In case of one person being committed, feelings might be subdued due to lack of hope, but they wont die out. If they do, the friendship will cease to exist. I say this based on absolutely nothing.
2) The thing about physical attraction doesn't hold either. Pyaar andha hota hai. If you do not believe me ask Ankita Vijayvergiya what its like.
3) What on the Earth is ostracized ?
bullshit!!total crap!senseless!
ReplyDeleteTell me the next post will be titled "The thin line b/n tafri and..."
ReplyDeleteahem ahem
ReplyDeleteActually beauty lies in the eyes of the Beer-Holder ;)
ReplyDeleteAlso Vineet is wrong, the next post will be titled "Mere saare dost..." or maybe we will get gyan about "maturity".
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